Nationality
NL
Languages
  • English
  • Dutch
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ICF Certification
Professional Certified Coach
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My Qualifications

Basistraining Voice Dialogue
Institute / Certifying body:
NOBCO
Date acquired:
March, 2018
ICF Professional Certified Coach (PCC)
Institute / Certifying body:
ICF
Date acquired:
September, 2019
Transactional Analysis 101
Institute / Certifying body:
European Association for Transactional Analysis
Date acquired:
June, 2018
Certified Professional Transformative Coach (145 ICF Accredited Coach Specific Training Hours = Full ACTP)
Institute / Certifying body:
Coach Masters Academy
Date acquired:
August, 2019
Certified Transformational Master Coach (80 ICF Accredited Coach Specific Training Hours)
Institute / Certifying body:
Coach Masters Academy
Date acquired:
September, 2020
CTI Co-Active Coaching- Fundamentals (18.75 ICF accredited coach training hours)
Institute / Certifying body:
ICF
Date acquired:
April, 2010
CTI Co- Active Coaching- Intermediate (98.25 ICF accredited coach training hours)
Institute / Certifying body:
ICF
Date acquired:
September, 2010

My Coaching Speciality

I work with emerging and established leaders who know what to do, but notice that under pressure, they don’t always do it.

This can show up as:
• holding on to control while wanting to empower others
• overthinking, self-doubt, or pushing themselves too hard
• recurring tension in collaboration or difficulty setting boundaries

Especially in situations where knowing what to do isn’t the issue, but doing it consistently is.

I support leaders in shifting the underlying patterns behind this, so leadership becomes more natural, effective and sustainable.

This is especially relevant in:
• leadership transitions
• growing into more senior roles
• environments where pressure is constant and expectations are high

My approach goes beyond insight and mindset alone. It focuses on increasing self-awareness and working at the level where (new) patterns are created and maintained, so change is not only understood, but actually embodied.

By working at this level, leaders develop greater clarity, self-compassion & resilience, enabling them to act in ways that are both effective & aligned with who they are and what their role requires.

Leadership then becomes less about effort, and more a way of being, where connecting with and empowering others becomes more natural.

I am an ICF PCC-certified coach & Certified Transformational Master Coach, with 14+ years of experience, working with leaders in both corporate environments and entrepreneurial settings.

Areas of expertise: Coaching whilst walking in nature, Transformational Coaching, Personal & Professional Vision and Purpose, High Potential Development, Leadership Development, Life Coaching, Self Compassion-Confidence & Empowerment, Burn- Out Prevention/ Recovery, Voice Dialogue, Conflict Resolution/Mediation

Current and previous clients amongst others: Shell, Microsoft, KPMG Meijburg, Deloitte, Bouwinvest Real Estate Investment, ABNAMRO Bank, Dutch Ministry of Defence, Schiphol, HVC, OUTSIDE Inc., Amsterdam University of Applied Sciences, NRC Handelsblad, Gerrit Rietveld Academy, Milieufederatie, Gemeente Haarlem, Gemeente Amsterdam

 My Packages

Free taster

Life Coaching / Setting & Reaching Life Goals Reaching Full Potential Coaching Relationships / Dating Coaching Habit Change Coaching Stress & Burnout Coaching Coaching for Expatriates Career & Job Search Coaching Career Management Coaching Talents & High-Potentials Coaching Leadership & Executive Coaching Personal Development Coaching

1 session(s)    0h45 per session
The goal of this 'no strings attached' session, is to determine to what extent we have a click. This is the ideal opportunity for you to find out if I could be right the coach for you and vices versa, it gives me insight into whether or not I believe we have the chemistry to dance in the moment together and in that way to enable your learning.

Free

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Orientation session

Life Coaching / Setting & Reaching Life Goals Reaching Full Potential Coaching Relationships / Dating Coaching Habit Change Coaching Stress & Burnout Coaching Coaching for Expatriates Career & Job Search Coaching Career Management Coaching Talents & High-Potentials Coaching Leadership & Executive Coaching Personal Development Coaching

1 session(s)    2h00 per session
If, after the free taster session we decide to move on, the next step is the 'orientation session' which will typically take around 2 to2,5 hrs. This session is all about getting to know more about each other; what you primarily want from this coaching relationship; where you are right now; designing the coaching alliance. Ie: how do you want to be coached & vice versa: what do I expect from myself and you; core ingredients such as values, life balance and limiting beliefs; relationship logistics: clear expectations about packages, fees, invoices, payments, who calls who, scheduling process etc. You will have to prepare some homework for this session .
Important: If after this sessions you decide it may not be for you, then that's no problem at all. I will then only charge for this orientation session.

€327.00

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Mentoring

Life Coaching / Setting & Reaching Life Goals Reaching Full Potential Coaching Relationships / Dating Coaching Habit Change Coaching Stress & Burnout Coaching Coaching for Expatriates Career & Job Search Coaching Career Management Coaching Talents & High-Potentials Coaching Leadership & Executive Coaching Personal Development Coaching

3 session(s)    1h30 per session
This is a package intended for:
- coaches who are looking to acquire their ICF ACC or PCC credential.
- coaches who want to improve their coaching skills in line with ICF defined coaching competencies.

€566.00

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Insight package

Life Coaching / Setting & Reaching Life Goals Reaching Full Potential Coaching Relationships / Dating Coaching Habit Change Coaching Stress & Burnout Coaching Coaching for Expatriates Career & Job Search Coaching Career Management Coaching Talents & High-Potentials Coaching Leadership & Executive Coaching Personal Development Coaching

3 session(s)    1h00 per session
Increased self awareness. You will learn more about your values, qualities and things that energise you whilst at the same time becoming acutely aware of your self limiting beliefs, negative assumptions & prevalent coping strategy. A great transformational kick start to build on!

€653.00

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Strength package

Life Coaching / Setting & Reaching Life Goals Reaching Full Potential Coaching Relationships / Dating Coaching Habit Change Coaching Stress & Burnout Coaching Coaching for Expatriates Career & Job Search Coaching Career Management Coaching Talents & High-Potentials Coaching Leadership & Executive Coaching Personal Development Coaching

6 session(s)    1h00 per session
Putting into practice your new found strength. Building on the foundation you laid in the first sessions and through deepening those insights and making purposeful and powerful choices based on them, you will truly have embarked on a transformational process, feeling strong and in charge when navigating around all the possibilities (and impossibilities) of your life.

€1,307.00

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Empowerment package

Life Coaching / Setting & Reaching Life Goals Reaching Full Potential Coaching Relationships / Dating Coaching Habit Change Coaching Stress & Burnout Coaching Coaching for Expatriates Career & Job Search Coaching Career Management Coaching Talents & High-Potentials Coaching Leadership & Executive Coaching Personal Development Coaching

9 session(s)    1h00 per session
Feeling empowered. That is what this package is all about. Going from very consciously making powerful and purposeful choices to subconsciously making sure you are in charge of your life. You now have the insights and experience to immediately feel if you are living in alignment with your values, are utilising your qualities and are doing the things you want to, in order to live a fulfilling life. This is what true transformation should lead to.

€1,960.00

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About me

About myself & my experience

I am a North Walian by birth, both British and Dutch, and was brought up bilingual. Moreover, I lived overseas as an expat child for twelve years. Literally a ‘flying’ start in life!
My overseas expat experience, combined with my parents’ open minded approach to local people and habits, have undoubtedly led to my passion for travelling. All this has shaped my innate curiosity about and involvement with people, leading amongst other things to a master’s degree in Anthropology. And I specifically get a kick out of helping individuals gain more confidence and be truly present.

I currently live in picturesque Haarlem, The Netherlands with my wife and our two young daughters. I have a passion for travelling, sports & nature, and prefer to be outside rather than inside.


I'm a Certified Transformational Master Coach and I have been awarded the International Coach Federation Professional Certified Coach certificate (PCC)
I received my initial coach training from the CTI back in 2011 and since then have amassed over 1800 hours of coaching experience. Most of which whilst working for 6 years as a dedicated coach for young high potentials during my 11 years with a corporate. 
Although I loved my job, I felt that true professional fulfilment was having my own company and so I started for myself in 2017/2018.

My clients work for all kinds of companies: large corporates like Shell, Microsoft and ABN AMRO bank, but also for (much) smaller companies like Bouwinvest & Outside Inc. Apart from corporate/business clients, I also work a lot with those in between jobs and private clients.

My coaching method & approach

The most important thing for me at the start is to create the right and safe coaching environment with my clients. The foundation is laid in the taster session. Confidentiality, safety and client ownership/empowerment are main areas I typically want to focus on.

Quite often a lack of reflection, awareness and thus real insight, will lead to the definition of, in the end, non-fulfilling goals. Moreover, realising these goals will most likely be driven by a ‘fix it’ attitude. As if something needs repairing.
But transformational coaching and sustainable change is not about fixing things. Instead it is about expanding awareness in areas like values and (limiting) beliefs in order to really change perceptions, formulate true desired goals and define specific action towards those goals.

When we speak about measuring succes, I can say that in general succes for me is when I experience my client moving towards their true desired goals. No matter how slow or fast, it is the direction that counts. It’s the perseverance and hard work that is succes in itself. That is also how I champion my clients. I keep on reminding them how well they are doing and that every step of the way is a succes story.

My uniqueness methodologically speaking is that if possible I coach outside and will use movement as a tool. Both moving and nature have a positive effect on mind&body, and moreover, this context gives you the opportunity to really experience your process rather than just talk about it.
In an online environment I like to translate this approach to playfulness in sessions. In general my motto is: let's go as deep as necessary but keep it as light as possible :).
Finally, it is also worth mentioning is that I like working with Voice Dialogue as a tool to engage with those numerous critical inner voices.

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Testimonials

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Testimonials

  • Linda Robbins
  • Dec 7, 2020
  • Was an extremely informative session, he understood what i was looking for and hoping to acheive, very good.

  • JOSE MOLINER
  • Jun 12, 2019
  • I'm going to hire Eilian for many sessions. :-) Just wanted to add a good review because so far my experience has been awesome! I feel really blessed for having found him.